I empathize with you, more so when you now have no recourse to anything after selling off property and all.
Considering birth time as 11:45 AM, you had taken these decisions during Sani Sade Saathi so matters went un-expected. The Sade Saathi has now long been over, so the severety of the problem should have diminished considerably.
If 11:45 AM is correct time, then the gems you are wearing Blue Sapphire and Diamond are perfect. Just rejuvenate them and all will be well.
Wishing you good luck, May God bless you and above all?