Yes you are right! My instincts have been telling me since january this year that there is something he has been hiding and he has been overly nice to me by keeping me occupied with expensive gifts which the whole of our married and dating life he would never buy for me. I have tried to catch him with his phone and so forth but I never can. he is too smart with technology and hiding things. He says that he will ruin me if i leave him and use all of his money to spoil my life – as he is quite well off. But these are just scare tactics (I hope). I feel his first wife and all his previous relationships ended due to his violent nature and fights. I pray that God pays him back for all that he has put me and other girls through and that he never gets married again!!!