I know you would had this relationship as love marriage and that too during rahu dasha. After seeing your both compatiblity it doesn’t match. Reason being you ar both from same naadi, which is Antya naadi. As per astrology if both naadi remains same you are not suppose to do marriage, as it signifies physical compatability. And strictly speaking if both naadi are same they will be termed as brother and sister as per astrology. I know few of the astrologers will ignore this, however in compatability this is the top scorer point / aspect.
I would suggest you is get away from him. Its harsh i know however he never gona change in his behaviour. And you will come out of him after october 2017.